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The Art of Female Dominance

Every day, I come into contact with so many men who are uncomfortable with their sexual relationships and just can’t see how to improve it. Of course, a lot of women simply don’t want to please their men as often as they would like, but the truth is that there are just as many guys who are getting it on a daily basis and it just isn’t cutting the mustard.

Whether you want to admit it or not, the world is still primarily run by men, which is perhaps why so many men find it so confusing if they don’t want to fulfill the traditional, macho role of a man who wants to be in control and a protector of his girl. Men are expected to open doors for women; to keep them from harm and to protect them from the big bad world out there, even if that’s a load of BS since us women can usually look after ourselves without a knight in shining armor. So perhaps you’re one of the guys who don’t feel like that, what do you do? Maybe you imagine your female boss stripping you naked and bending you over her desk. What if your day dreamed fantasies involve getting pulled over for speeding by a lady cop who spanks you on the road side? Even the mousy librarian is suddenly really attractive when you think of her standing on your balls with her high heels.

It’s time to face the truth guys; you could well be one of the many femdom men out there. Not heard of the term before? Well, as far as I know it’s not in the Oxford English Dictionary, but here’s my quick and handy definition of femdom men:

Femdom men:

Femdom (an abbreviated version of ‘female dominance’) is a form of BDSM when the man wishes to be dominated sexually by his female partner. There is a sexual relationship between the man and woman that is slave and mistress respectively, where the man submits to his mistress of ‘domme’.

Don’t panic guys, it’s really not that much of a big deal if you’re one of the many femdom men. It’s not something shameful or humiliating (unless you want it to be of course). And most importantly, it’s not something you can change. If the idea of a woman dominating you is what gets you hot, chances are that you’re not going to be able to train yourself not to react to it – our sexual urges are a big part of who we are and they can’t be denied.

Also, I’ve met several guys who seem to have unhappily accepted that they need women to dominate them to get their jollies, and who quietly submit to all kinds of extreme BDSM practices that they don’t enjoy because it comes with the territory. Femdom men aren’t all the same! You have to work out where the real turn on is for you, whether it’s pain, humiliation, or simply the sense of being owned and dominated. If you hate pain, it doesn’t mean that you have to sit through hours of spanking.

Right not, you might be wondering what it is that I do exactly to give me so much experience with femdom men. Is it a hobby? A job? A strange sort of life choice? The truth is probably closest to the former. I love dominating femdom men, but I find it really difficult to have a boyfriend who I have the perfect sexual relationship with – if they’re a true femdom man, we never seem to have much in the relationship apart from the sex, and if they’re not into being dominated, our sex life is dull for me. So, rather than searching for the impossible, I have several femdom men who come when I call, all of whom I met online and requested because I thought that our fetishes were similar. Now, if I feel like fucking someone, all I need to do is give them a call and thy come running – it’s a little like ordering a takeaway. Or having a very well trained dog. It turns them on that I don’t give them any pleasure until I want it too, so it’s the perfect arrangement!

And what do I do with my willing boys? Just like everyone, I have certain areas of the femdom fetish that I enjoy more than others, for which I have Rich and Casey.

Rich: My Teasable Toy

Rich is a sweet little slave who gets really hard for orgasm denial, which fortunately happens to be my forte. Lately, I’ve been making him wear chastity devices when he’s away from my domain, just so that I can be absolutely sure of his obedience. I’m a regular customer of Koala Swim, who make some of the best chastity devices I’ve ever seen. They’re so creative and sturdy that I know my men aren’t going to escape them any time soon, and even if they get an erection there’s absolutely nothing they can do about it. My latest purchase is the Man Slut Cock Cage, which is a metal creation that can keep Rich perfectly locked in place while allowing him to get hard. It has a ring to go at the very base of his dick around the balls as well, and then another around the base of the shaft, from which the metal bends straight down to keep his cock facing towards the floor. It’s just wire, so he doesn’t even have an excuse that he has to take it off to pee. In fact that’s my favorite part about it, thinking of him trying awkwardly to pee with an erection and his dick trapped in one place. Of course, there’s a little metal lock on it, to which only I have the key.

I can’t leave it on him for too long, because poor Rich gets so aroused in it that he can hardly bare it for long before he’s crawling through my door begging for release. It’s a brilliant creation, and one that makes sure that he’s thinking of me whatever he’s doing, because every now and then when he moves he will sense the cold metal against his skin or the tug as he tries to rearrange himself.

Another of my favorite toys to use on my femdom men is the Ass Spark Cock Ring. Unfortunately I can’t leave him in this for days at a time because Rich wouldn’t be able to leave the house because it would be so obvious he was hard. The metal cock ring keeps him turned on and it’s kept in place with an ass hook with a huge metal ball in just the right place to rub against his prostate gland.

I think it’s fairly safe to say that most femdom men love orgasm denial and rectal stimulation, so have a lot of toys that cater to m favorite area of the femdom fetish. It doesn’t hurt, and there’s the constant physical stimulation to keep them distracted, not to mention the feeling of being completely owned, even when they’re not in front of me.

Emasculating, the Fastest Way to Female Domination

For my newest femdom men, I usually like to surprise them and tell them absolutely nothing about what I’m about to do to them. So when they’re lying there blindfolded and naked, with their hands tied and ordered to stay still, I bring out the more unusual side of my domination tactics. Koala Swim don’t only do some awesome chastity products, they specialize in some swimwear designs that are creative and really unique. I know that a lot of their customers like to wear their micro swimwear for tanning on the beach and to show off their packages, but the majority of guys are used to wearing comfortable boxers or briefs and they don’t even know such things exist.

The Internal Exposure Plug Thong and the Ass Invasion Thong are two of the more... dramatic designs from Koala Swim that I love to put on my femdom men when they can’t do anything about it. Of course, they’re expecting cock rings and plugs, but not to be dressed up in such an exposed way. The Ass Invasion Thong has a cock ring to keep them hard, but their dick and balls are covered by the material of the swimwear in a little pouch. The pouch is attached to the cock ring, which in turn is also a metal length that turns into an ass hook and keeps the back of the swimsuit in place. The Internal Exposure Plug Thong has the same ring at the front, but nothing connects the front and back between the legs – instead the back of the thong is kept in place with a huge dildo that holds it inside my femdom men. Alternatively, sometimes I make them wear the Diablo Insane, which doesn’t cover their dick and balls at all, leaving them completely bare as the front of the swimwear is just a cock ring that keeps them out on display and pushes their balls together so you can see everything.

The best part of putting them in these sexy swimsuits is that they just don’t see it coming. Once I’ve dressed them, I untie them and let them see how sexy and owned they look, before making them promise me that once they leave my domain they have to wear the swimwear constantly until I next see them. Most femdom men are really surprised, but they feel so dominated that it turns them on even more, especially if they feel humiliated.

My Femdom Men

I have a couple more men who are at my beck and call when it comes to my sexual hobby, most of whom I know well enough to be able to keep them on the edge for hours. A few of them like to be publically humiliated, which I usually achieve by forcing them to go down to the local pool wearing one of the thongs. Koala Swim also do some which are made to fit over the chastity devices that are locking them in place, so even though they think that everyone can see that they have a dildo in their ass or that their cock is locked up in metal, the truth is that no one really notices unless they look close enough. Don’t tell my femdom men that though!

On a regular basis, I do a lot of pegging with my boys, which for the innocent of you out there involves putting on a strap on and bending them over something while I fuck them with it. If I’m feeling especially cruel, I might strap a dildo into their mouth so that they have to breathe through their nose and they feel completely used.

And the number one trick in my book? Hot wax. Most people don’t try this because they think that it will seriously hurt them, but the truth is that wax cools so quickly that it only burns for a second before it’s setting. If your femdom men are blindfolded than they have absolutely no idea when it’s coming and it’s even better when they don’t know what it is that you’re doing to them.

So there you have it, hopefully I’ve opened some eyes to the world of femdom men. Essentially, I’d be happy if I managed to make just one guy out there realize that there’s no point in trying to avoid what turns you on, so don’t fight it! There will always be someone else out there in the world who’s aroused by the same fetishes that you are, whatever they are, so all you have to do is find them and you won’t have to keep having half hearted, boring sex all your life! Sex is meant to be fun, so don’t take yourself too seriously and get out there and try something exciting and new for once!